Saturday, September 02, 2006

you'll never know

when things comes our way..you'll never how it will happen. what's important is the process. i've always wanted to talk about this. The thing that what if you found out you fall for a close friend? And i think this should be happening quite lately and if not not long ago. I bought a copy of Cleo yesterday during my lunch break. And they brought up this issue.

Whatever it is. The main factor for us to factor in is "Is it friendship or Love?" Because we are usually confused over these 2 feelings. Do you know how to differentiate them?

Once you are sure whether it's the latter or the former it's either you take action or you kept yourself in silence. Take action because you are sure you like him/her and keeping in silence when you know if this goes wrong it will ruin your friendship and there's nothing going to go on between both of you.

Well things becomes tricky when friendship becomes LOVE. Why? Because it complicates everything. Friends around you and not the least yourself too. I'm sure we thought of how the friendship is going to carry on if either one of you "proposed" (don't know if this is the right word). It's either he/she have the same feelings over each other or nOt.

"It was Just A Misunderstanding"

And if you don't wish to see things go haywire do test him/her. See if he/she likes you? But how? Let me see what Cleo says....

hahahahahhaah....i feel funny.

Test the waters.
Such as setting up a dinner for 2 and if he/she is thrilled with it. Then both of you may tie the knot.Most importantly is to make sure your feelings are genuinely strong because you can lose your close friend just because of this.

Hmmm..dinner for 2 can proof something? I come to agree to a certain extent. Not all but least.

Try going to the beach or park at night. I think it's more romantic. (i know u have thoughts already but No No...NOT THAT!)

Good Luck!

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