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from CLEO March Issue

Are you relationship-ready?

5 points u should tick off:

* You've acepted responsibility of your own happiness
* You've discovered lots of positive things about being single
* You've set financial, emotional and intellectual goals
* You don't just want a partner, you want the right person for the real you
* You feel in charge of your life

I personally think it works another way round. Well i was shock to learnt that "the happier you are single, the more likely you are to find your ideal relationship." WHY? "because women who are cool with their single status don't mope around waiting for a guy to kick-start their lives- they live them."

It is true to a certain extent.

Oh well it depends on how more often than not how you feel about it.

The thing that i think that has the absolute truthness is:

"It's Fine To Want To Be Loved. But Needing Someone Just Because You're Hurting Is Not."

Have any of you ever had an experience where in just a short time span u got really darn close (god knows how close) to a person. So close that almost every other day u guys will hang on a phone conversation without fail. Having to chat on all things in the world.

And then all of a sudden the talk came to a FULL STOP when things comes to be apart.

You stopped calling each other. (reasons like not free? or what ever reasons tht we can find on earth)

You don't miss each other at all?

And i'm pretty sure Thoughts will develop.

Why the hell are we so close before?
Do we have feelings for each other ? Even a little bit? (as a consolation possibly)
Why are we not so close as before?
Why are we not talking on the phone so often?
Are we losing something in common?

The answer remains to be explored in a great detail.

Come hell or high water, whether u like it or not, if u choose not to ask why the reasons behind it remained unknown. If u choose to ask at least u know what's going on and u could patch things up.

To me life evolves in contradicting issue to be dealt with. You point your fingers on someone who contradicts themselves and what about you? Have u ever wonder if u made contradictions yourself.